Failure is an opportunity to make things better. Only to make things better. If you settle for patching things up, it will only leave a scar. Don’t settle for the scar, opt for the improvement.
When you fail, re-evaluate exactly what happened and make improvements, don’t just wait for things to fix themselves, if you do, things will simply reroute around the problem.
Think about a car crash as a chance to get a new car. Think about the argument as a chance to compromise and improve. Think about the failure as a chance to reevaluate and reconstruct, don’t settle for the band-aid or the rerouting around the issue.
Hustle it up!